Feb 28 2011, 12:09 pm / Anxious
Let's start with some good news....
If you have read my past blogs, you will see that my Mom's cancer recurrence has been upsetting me. I am very happy to report that the chemo miracle pill they have been giving her is working perfectly, and her bloodwork tumor markers are down to normal. Thanks for all your prayers and thoughts.
I am going to skip the long crappy details of what is bothering me. What it all boils down to is that you can't control other people's behavior, no matter how many suggestions, alternatives, ultimatums and pleads you give them. My big fear is that someone else's behavior is going to hurt me emotionally and become my problem to fix.
These fears are consuming me. I no sooner calm down about health issues and I replace it with something else that isn't even really my problem. I am constantly afraid.
If anyone has any specific tips for dealing with controlling fear, nervous tummy or words of wisdom regarding worrying about other people actions, please share them with me.
I feel like I tell everyone I know every day that I feel anxious and I need help and no one has any suggestions.