Anxiety Self Help

Okay, so I'm not sure if it happens to everyone or even on the "Jude Law" scale (as I'm no JL for that matter) but I caught a bit of the "Alfie" move the other day on the tube and found myself in the same shoes as him, well not the same shoes but in heart and mind, that is.

When I was married I was hearted and soul'd to my x but before that and after, i would end up not wanting to be "settled" and thus had a few relationships that anyone would die for but didn't take them serious enough. The women in my life are too kind, a blessing from heaven but it’s not always mutual in between..., and so I have thus not treated them in "like" return. I'm sure any woman wantsto be put on apedestal (is that called "exclusiveness?") but I'm just not committing right now. I don't know what I'm afraid of (traits of the x?) and have now found myself like Alfie, sad, alone but yet humbled and knowledgeable of what has happened to him.

It sucks and a lesson learned I guess, or not??

My Comments From: Dee123 Apr 28 2011, 6:31 am Now that you have had this awakening.....maybe it's time to spend some time alone and work on your issues. At least you won't be hurting some poor woman. I'm just saying that dating should be put on the back burner.