So tonight was a eventful night that's for sure. My fiance and I got a storage unit since we live in an apartment for now. We had left over stuff out at his parent's house which they only live 15 mins from us so we went out there and loaded up the cars and took the stuff to the storage unit. I'm so stressed cause my fiance can never get over everything or let go of things in that matter. He has to keep everything and it's becoming a hording situation and I have to help him before it gets too bad like it's already becoming.
Most of the storage is his stuff not mine I only have holiday stuff in there and maybe a couple of things but that's it nothing else. When we put more stuff in there tonight I got so frustrated at him now we can't even walk in there at all. It's packed to the ceilings and I just gave up and walked away and got in the car and waited for him to unload the truck.
I don't know what to do with that stuff I mean I know it's not mine and it's his but he needs help with hording things and let go I know they're memories but sometimes you just have to let go of what you can't store anymore or have room for. He's only paying $70 for the storage unit but still that's not the point. Now I know why people say don't keep too much stuff cause it sucks to have to move that stuff when you move to a new place.
Great advice would totally help right about now especially when I don't know how to control how I feel about the situation. I want to help but I just can't find the right answers or solutions to illiminate some of the stuff that's in the storage unit. He is willing to go through the stuff one last time and downsize but he collects computers, vaccum cleaners, and everything else you could ever think of that's for sure.
If anyone has advice please help before it's too late!
Thanks So Much!!