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wallanec
By: wallanec
Mood: Disappointed
Date: Nov 21, 2008
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I'm feeling a little guilty tonight and it has been bothering me.  I made my son's truck payment through the internet, but the wrong amount got submitted.  I'm not sure how this happened, because I have been doing this for him for the past couple of years.


The payment went through his bank today and cleaned his entire account out.  I was on the phone with the bank talking to them and trying to figure out why they allowed the payment to go through when we had put a stop payment on the account.  The amount is still pending so it hasn't really gone through yet, but we will know tomorrow if it was paid or not.


Now I feel that I should put money in his account.  He has money in his savings, but he pays for his school with that money and that would leave him short.  So, now I'm thinking for some reason this is my fault and I owe him the money.  I hate to worry about everything, but he has a baby and I'm affraid the baby might need something.  I really don't have the money to put back in his account, it was over $1000 dollars. 


I don't know what to do.  I feel really bad for my son and I want to help him out, my only hope is that the stop payment will catch the truck payment and not let it go through.  Then he can call and make his payment for the correct amount.


Please God don't let that payment go through.






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From: lisaf
Nov 22 2008, 12:20 am

dont blame urself, these mistakes do happen eric, and son should really be doing this imself.


xx



lisaf


Nov 21 2008, 5:45 pm

No Eric!!  Don't put money in his account.  I'm being my blunt self,........... let him deal with it.  You can not carry him through his life, he has to stand on his own two feet sometime. 


You are the greatest dad (and the greatest g-father) on the earth to be taking care of his financial needs but you have to let go some time.  Remember,....you had to grow up sometime and you did alright. 



shelley481