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Nov 05 2006, 10:11 am / Bored

well today is my 21st day of working non-stop....I really need to take a break from work......yeah sure it's good money but definitely not good on my mind....I'm starting to freak out....now I gotta be in work within the next hour and feel like calling in but I never do. Sure everyone loves that I can work when they want me to but the only problem is I just don't know how to say "NO". That is my friggin problem. when someone asks me can you work OT I always say yeah sure but in the back of my head I say why the hell do you want to work more OT..your killing yourself man..ahhhh I swear next week I'm not working more than 50 hours but i'll find out next week ahhh what a headcase I am sometimes.

My Comments

From: eeyorelover
Nov 05 2006, 5:13 pm

You really need to take some time for yourself hun before you burn out!!!!

I think that alot of us here have problems saying no to others. People with anxiety are usually people pleasers. I know it's one problem that I struggle with too.

I read a affirmation statement on the web somewhere and have started using this one line of it...

I have the right to say no and still be loved and accepted.

I've been trying to put it to use but you know how hard that is - lol

Hope that you get some well deserved rest!!!Laughing

xxx 



 eeyorelover


From: TimoCT
Nov 05 2006, 10:16 am
Making sh*t up always works for me when I just want to get out  of there.  I have "an appointment", I have a date, etc..


 TimoCT