Anxiety Self Help

May 18 2010, 9:12 am

Thomas learn to relax close your eyes slow deep breathing in and out in and out picture the little desert Island you are laying on all alone do you hear the laping of the waves on the shore where's that sweet scent coming from breath in and hold it hold and release it out slowly can you feel your body relaxing? ask your partner if she could find a long palm leaf and gently and lightly brush it up and down your body no sex will be performed in this ritual when you have had about 10 mins change places with godess slow and easy at the end of 30 mins you will both feelso relaxed you will be too laid back to carry on and thats what makes the night last longer and and the sex more pleasureable all the tension has left the body and now it is 100% pleasure and still no sex because you carry on to stroke eachothers bodies with your hands and fingertips. Inner thights back of neck with a pair of hot lips just curessing all night then day light will shine through the window and the stream of light will rise up her beautiful tanned legs all the way up to her bautiful angelc face and as you both open your tired eyes to realise yes YES AAAAGGGGHHH I have been sleeping with her MOTHER and who pops in the door with a cup of tea ANXIETY LMAO now you really are relaxed if you are laughing at this see you later dudes.

May 18 2010, 8:47 am

Thomas What is your state of mind when you go out or a social night?

May 18 2010, 8:38 am

Joking apart its a big city out there and there are a lot of people looking for love and security you have to get to know the person, A one nighter is just showing your bad manners and disrespect to the women that one day might want to have your kids the greatest creation in the world and there is nothing out there that can top it I attended both my kids births man it was like going to the moon when you have yours you will get intouch and tell me that I was right. Thr Guys that beat their gums about what they did with the ladies are the loosers because nothin happened they were playing with there monkies in their hand chee.

I say this one thing to you bro the only way that you are makin love no matter how you swoon she is the Lady with the last word so resect your woman always she aint a rag doll to pass around she is woman of honor you respect tht and you will have long and prosperous life I kmow for I have been there it wasnt ll roses and moonshine but we always madr up come bed time you

May 18 2010, 8:22 am

Its all swings and round abouts the more you do it the less tension is going to be in you body s you relax you will feel the tension drain away from your body. Remember you are the man in charge not the anxiety the anxiety are the ones that are frightened not you once theylose there grip on you you will be a stroung and confidentman and you will keep stong from this day forward you may experience a hiccup now and gain but you are strong ler today pass by because tommorow you will be that string man again and each day you get stronger the further away the anxiety will run because they are fraid of you.

As for talking to the ladies be your self practice what you are going to say to her when you meet up remember they are as nervous as you are complimentor on her hair her figure as she twirrles for you dont blow in her ear it does not work her panties will not fall off and you will have a bloody nose for your troubles dont listen to what people tell you they are the losers you are going to be the winner because you are going to treat her like an angel sent from the angel detention school

Jul 30 2009, 2:57 pm

hey I know what it means to be shy .I"ll talk to u anytime you would like