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Apr 11 2012, 7:54 am / Don't know

Ok, so ive been working so much that i dont have time to get on here as much as i would like, I work nights so i sleep pretty much all day and when im off i stay up as much as i can but it gets ruff and i end up passing out haha, anyways..as of late things have been good.

I havent been getting much anxiety, only when it has to deal with my boyfriend sometimes and bills, but i actually got recently a newer car which is awesome and ive been working to get my stuff paid off, sometimes is harder than others but thats life. Ive been trying to keep myself postivie and thinking that everything will turn out ok, As for my bf..well im still paranoid about all the crap before (the texting other gals crap) and im starting to realize i dont want to put up with that anymore, i cant be with someone that im going to be paranoid everytime he texts someone or what hes doing when im not around, i cant do it, and he might not be but from pervious times that what makes me crazy now. I keep my mouth shut about it but i know myself and eventually im going to blow up. So im trying to figure out what to do. Lately when we hangout hes been treating me very well..but even then that makes me paranoid he did something and thats why hes acting that way and i should think like that...ugh

Anyways..I hope everyone is doing good and i want to say once again that this group has helped me and ways you can believe...



My Comments

Apr 11 2012, 9:30 pm
Boys will be boys; we are hard wired to be promiscuous; but for the right mate will be loyal; though not easy; :-)

johnsmith


Apr 11 2012, 2:10 pm
it has helped me also. love this grup

bonita2243


From: Lady_K
Apr 11 2012, 9:08 am
I hear you with the trust issue, especially with anxiety! It's like you cant turn your head off. Good luck!

Lady_K


From: blewis
Apr 11 2012, 8:49 am
Coming from a guys opinion a relationship will eventually fold if you don't have trust. I would approach him about it and say that you need to be able to trust him and is there any reason you should not be able to. In other words give him the opportunity to come clean (that is if there is anything to come clean about). From there you start to rebuild your trust little by little. And let him know that is what you are trying to do. Be honest with him about your feelings. Just my 2 cents. Glad the anxiety has been better! Good for you.

blewis