N life we are either growing , Improving or decaying ..
NCgal81 Female
33 years old
Candler , North Carolina
United States

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Job: Student
Smoke: No
Drink: No
Religion: Christian
Orientation: Straight
Dating status: Married
MEMBER SINCE: Oct 07 2010, 6:19 pm
STAR SIGN: Capricorn
LAST LOGIN: Apr 28 2014, 1:25 pm

Hotel For Dogs , League Of Their OWN , Friday , Just wright , Love and Basketball , The movie Sex and The City , Marmaduke .

The Band Perry , Usher , Pitbull , Rhyanna , Brad Paisely , Third Day , Barlow Girls , Jeremy camp , Drake , Adele Lady Gaga & soo much more ...

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Depression Support , Insomnia , Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

My name is Melissa , I'm 32 live in Western North Carolina where I share a beautiful home with my husband of 12 yrs . I am also a mother of a handsome 12 yr old son , whom even tho he's adopted , I have faith that god will reunite us back together one day soon .. My husband & I do not yet have childran of our own yet , however we are the proud parents of a sweet 5 month old Jack Russell Terrier named Gwen , who keeps us on our toes :)

chocolate, cooking, watching the show Keeping up with the Kardashians , I enjoy trying different foods, cooking different foods , spending time with my dog maggie who is a beautiful black and white Jack Russell Terrier mix . I enjoy reading, surfing on the net and I am absolutely addicted to my facebook . Among other things, I love to shop, I love antique shopping , what is some else's trash is my treasure :))) in my spare time I love to scrapbook , photography , I love to design stuff and I have just recently learned how to photo fix pictures on my cell phone so that is one of my biggest likes right now .

My hubby's OCD , his hyperness , hate being late for appointments , absolutely hate procrastination , absolutely dispize being bossed arround .

Blogging, scrapbooking, photography , wanting to learn to cross stitch , designing stuff ect ect

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Aug 30 2011, 5:33 pm
hey! do you knit? i just started and it's really fun to dive into. thanks for accepting my friend request! :)


May 22 2011, 7:52 am
Hi NC gal,

Maybe ACT can help. ACT is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. ACT has helped me a lot. There are some ACT self-help workbooks for issues that couples deal with. I haven't read it yet but "ACT with love" by Dr. Russ Harris is probably a good intro to ACT.


May 09 2011, 11:59 pm
sorry you had to make a decision like that. It is stressful just seeing you type it. I wish there was something i can say or a piece of advice. Just know that you don't need to take that verbal abuse. It's gonna get to a point where it will start to affect you mentally aswell and for what? for him? Just know what is right for you.


Apr 21 2011, 7:08 pm
Hi NCGal81,

I also have a daughter 10 years old, another, 22, both beautiful, smart, and the loves of my life. I live near Chicago, the weather stinks! It's cold, it's rainy, it's gloomy. Nice to meet you, have a great Spring-Easter, holiday.



Jan 14 2011, 8:16 pm
Just wanted to stop by and say Hi! I hope all is well for you - your friend....